Part of the problem is the labeling. If I don't use the words you prefer you are offended - so again forcing me to conform to you.
How about you just be a woman - join the rest of us women and fight beside us rather than us.
Maybe because you have been fighting for so long you no longer know how to live in peace.
Frankly - I am tried of the labels - been here for a very long time - supported by brothers and sister in OUR long fight for equality and sameness.
But hey, if labels make you feel better about how special you are - go for it!